Describe and assess the following
The life experience or relationship that affected your development the most during adolescence; explain why.
To the writer, for g.) please use the following information to construct half a page and provide information about the same pseudo adolescent girl age (13-18). Please edit or rewrite information provide in the red, I want the information rewritten in the answer for question g.)above in the first person:
Please write of a breakup between the girl and a boy in high school. Also include Taylor Swift song “All Too Well” as an anthem to the memory and perception of the breakup. The story allows her to revisit her relationship with him and identify how the relationship was an act of illusion. Looking at the details, Swift gave her the permission to “to stop editing out the feelings that made her feel small, and to find a way to rewrite a new story that was something closer to the truth. And when her breakup was full of dishonesty, she found solace in Swifs words because it was all about generosity, communication and honesty. The 10-minute version of “All Too Well” is an anthem to memory and perception. This song allowed me to revisit a familiar story, and ask myself how much of it was an act of self-delusion. It was a belted nudge to look more closely at the details, to stop editing out the ones that made me feel small, to rewrite something closer to the truth. In retelling her story, Swift gave me something my partner couldn’t. And when my breakup was anything but generous or communicative or honest, her words were. The relationship taught her to let go and she learned that every ones story is their own. Learning to start letting go of the story of her and him, so she could start a new life loving herself and her own identity for the first time in a long time. To be disrespected in her relationship with her boy friend allowed her to give permission to herself to not be disrespected and to understand the meaning behind how we claim to care about others. Ten years later, she is holding him responsible for the relationship, ut understands, how the relationship has made her grow and has also learned that the relationship has made her mature when it relates to giving and getting affection. His inattention, and his inability to prioritize her taught her that she need to ove herself and not let others get the best of her in relationships and in life.
